Sex does not start or end at penetration! It’s all about connection, intimacy and being present. Steamy movies, hot showers together, a bit of roleplay - anything counts!
Foreplay is part of sex, or sometimes sex itself! Done right, you and your partner are in for a wild night! We put together the importance of shared foreplay - and ten ways foreplay can spice up your bed life!
The importance of foreplay:
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Beyond physical: Strong. Emotional. Connection. When you’re present for your partner, sex goes beyond physical. It becomes shared love and lust - exactly what you want to give your special one.
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Let’s talk science: Foreplay increases blood flow to the labia, clitoris, and penis - i.e. a science-backed way to have hotter, steamier sex!
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Sets the mood: Foreplay helps release oxytocin - AKA - the love hormone! Stress goes down, and a sense of relaxation and comfort takes over!
- Makes your sex life adventurous: Foreplay time is open - and not bound by any metaphorical “rules”. Be adventurous, explore each other’s kinks and erogenous zones, give roleplay a try, the list goes on!
10 ways to do foreplay right
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Set the scene: Candles, dim lights, sensual music, the works! Create the mood you want in your bedroom. You could even make it a surprise for your partner!
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Communicate, communicate, communicate: Talk to your partner. Ask questions. Get rid of the guesswork, and ditch the hinting around!
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Go slow: Why? Because slow foreplay builds anticipation, increases arousal, and ultimately, leads to more fulfilling sex. Take time out of your day (or night) for your partner. Remember, it’s not a marathon.
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Explore each other’s bodies: Humans are blessed with multiple fingers, lips, and a tongue! Graze through every part of your partner’s body, not just the erogenous zones!
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Libertee Tip: Luna by Libertee is the perfect massager for couples exploration: with its curves and sensual vibrations, you can explore every inch of your partner’s body.
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Libertee Tip: Luna by Libertee is the perfect massager for couples exploration: with its curves and sensual vibrations, you can explore every inch of your partner’s body.
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Use external tools: Bouncing off the last point, why stop at your fingers or genitals? Sex toys, cuffs, sashes, etc are great ways to leave your partner hot and breathless!
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Libertee Tips: Take your exploration further with Libertee's sensual vibrators. With its compact size and wide range of vibrations settings, Dia Mini is a perfect bullet massager for discreet and playful exploration, anytime and anywhere. And for couples seeking intense sensations, discover Euporie, the couples's favorite massager with its flexible neck and strong vibrations and thus... endless possibilities.
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Libertee Tips: Take your exploration further with Libertee's sensual vibrators. With its compact size and wide range of vibrations settings, Dia Mini is a perfect bullet massager for discreet and playful exploration, anytime and anywhere. And for couples seeking intense sensations, discover Euporie, the couples's favorite massager with its flexible neck and strong vibrations and thus... endless possibilities.
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Kissing: Never underestimate the power of kissing. And it’s backed by science! Several neuroscience studies have shown that kissing someone we like causes a range of biochemical reactions in our body. Oxytocin, or the love hormone, will be secreted more with the effect of lowering our blood pressure and heart rate. Get to it!
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Talk Dirty (or Sweet): Use words to arouse and engage your partner. Whether it’s playful teasing or heartfelt compliments, you can’t go wrong with a bit of verbal foreplay!
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Try roleplay: Be spontaneous, consistency is overrated anyway! Fill in shoes that aren’t yours! Perhaps you’ll be a sexy fireman tonight, or maybe a hot nurse? Discuss it ahead, plan it out, or decide to test your improv skills.
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Be present, stay attuned: Pay attention to what your partner’s enjoying. Change up your game accordingly. Remember, they may be shy sometimes, but you can always ask!
- Keep it fresh: Remember, the world of foreplay is limitless, and imagination is key! Don’t make it a routine, and feel free to try out new ways to pleasure yourself and your partner! And guess what... That's exactly why we created Libertee in India!